Be dependable. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have sex with you, then you should show her what an amazingly dependable guy you are.

Give it time. Some guys can be ready to have sex with a girl in the time it takes to down a beer, while some girls can take months, or even longer, to decide that they’re ready to make love.

Do not act like you are obsessed with sex. Let’s face it — if you’re a male of a certain age who is desperate for his girlfriend to have sex with him, then you probably are obsessed with sex. But that doesn’t mean you have to make jokes, innuendos, or even blatant references to sex all the time.

Be loyal. If you want to make your girlfriend trust you, then you have to be loyal to her. She’ll never have sex with you if she thinks you’re talking to or checking out other women, or even hanging out with other women.

Treat her like a lady. If you want your girlfriend to have sex with you, then you should treat her like a lady, not just like someone you want to hook up with. To do this, you have to be a gentleman and be courteous, kind, understanding, and generally admirable.

Take her out on romantic dates. If you want to build the sexual tension, you have to build the romance first. Make her feel special by taking her out, dressing up, and picking a romantic spot for dinner, a drink, or even just for stargazing. You don’t have to do anything corny or out of your element to make her feel special.

Don’t ever pressure her. If your girlfriend says she’s not ready to have sex with you, then you shouldn’t pressure her. Don’t try making any arguments — saying things like, “But we’ve been together for so long,” “Everyone else is doing it,” or “But I really, really like you,” isn’t going to make her feel any better.

How to Flirt With Your Girlfriend

Use your eyes
When she asks you what you’re looking at, tell her how beautiful she looks. Only say it if you truly mean it!

Be confident
Do not hesitate to flirt with your girlfriend.

Touch her
Hold her hand! This is a great way to flirt, and it can also break the touch barrier if you’re in a new relationship.

Declare your feelings for her

Make her laugh

Compliment Them In Front Of Other People

Surprise her

Give A Little Kiss

Make Dirty Double Entendres

Check double meaning chat by video.

1. Ask about flavor she likes
2. Ask about her size.
3. Get naughty when you get the chance
4. Focus on fun. This is the most basic and yet important part of having a conversation with a group of girls. If you can convince the girls that you’re a lot of fun to spend time with, they’d reach out to you just to hang out with you.

Getting to the good stuff

Of course, you don’t want to start with something extremely intimate. That will come off as intense and discourage a woman from opening up.

Instead, start with lighter questions. If she’s discussing them with you, you can move towards heavier ones.

(Examples go from lighter to heavier)

• “What do you find most attractive about a man?”
• “When was your first kiss?”
• “What was your first kiss like?”
• “What do you think you look sexiest in?”
• “How do you flirt with a guy when you want to show him you’re interested?”
• “Have you ever made the first move with a guy? What was it?”
• “How important is a passionate sexual connection to you in a relationship?”
• “Do you consider yourself a sexual person?”
• “When was the first time you had sex?”
• “Would you ever sleep with someone on a first date if the connection was strong enough?”
• “Where’s the craziest place you’ve ever had sex?”
• “What’s the hottest thing a guy can do during sex?”
• “What’s your favorite position?”
• “What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do in bed with a guy but haven’t?”
• “What’s something that secretly turns you on?”

Make sure the girl welcomes your touches

Give her a light and casual touch

Linger a little longer

Hold her jacket out
Offer your hand
Brush something off of her face or hair
Compliment her jewelry or nail polish
Notice when she’s not interested